March 2009

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This week has been Spring break for the kids (and Aaron being SUPER Papa) and one filled with doctors appointments.

Over the last week I’ve noticed that Trent keeps saying “ uh and what” a whole lot and as much as I thought it could be a 4 year old thing in my gut I knew it was more.  So, much to Aaron’s dismay (Katie  - must you search out trouble) but given our history with hearing stuff- I just wanted to jump on it.  Thankfully we have a relationship now with an incredible audiologist at Packard and she was able to get us in on Monday.  The toddler-hearing test though is much different than the infant one.  Concentration was key and Trent was so focused.  He wanted so much to hear the little beeps and he just couldn’t.  The mama was so proud. Ok so we failed the hearing test and he has fluid again.  Now it’s time for a plan.  It looks like he’ll be getting tubes again and I begged (big time) to have to have audiology get us in with ENT as soon as possible.  Apparently my begging wasn’t all that because the first available is April 21st. Not great but at least we have a plan and get his issues resolved as soon as possible to avoid impacts to his development.

Today was Sophie’s turn.  While Trent is rocking potty training, Sophie just can’t quite put her arms around it.  We know there are development issues.  She still toe walks and favors her right side when trying to skip or run but we know those are things we just have to work on everyday and work through.  We knew though that once potty training time happened – we may need more tests and that was today was about.  There is a strong possibility that her hydrocephalus has impacted her ability to “sense” when she needs to go and today we had an ultra sound of her kidneys. Aaron brought her up to Packard and I met them there.  I think she really appreciated having both of us with her.  It was nice to see some of our old friends at Packard and see their improvements (with lots of great landscaping and the toy train being upgraded). And Sophie was SO chatty. Saying hello to everyone, talking, smiling and just wanted to get to know everyone.  As luck would turn out, the ultrasound technician who did our study was someone who has known us over the years and remembered Sophie from her NICU days.  She was so happy to see her progress.   Sophie’s kidney issues are always just one of those things in my head and I guess 90% of the time I forget it’s there but today was one where I needed to remember.  I had mentally prepared myself to see her shunt tube all through her tummy (the first time I saw it years ago it completely freaked me out) but today I had my head about me to remind the technician that she has one kidney fussed in the center of her body.  Didn’t want the technician to think she discovered something that we didn’t know and would freak us out.  Although we had to go two rounds of trying to get the right picture, Sophie was a total trooper and just stepped up to having a very long ultrasound exam.   I think though having both Aaron and I there (I was holding her on the gurney) just made it easier.  On Friday we get to see “ the plumbing doctor” (his words not mine) to get the results.  Depending on the outcome, she made need a little surgical procedure to connect what hydrocephalus has prevented- to help making her body work as it needs to.

This week is also Spring break for the kids.  Granted there are no wild beach parties, thong bathing suits, or drunken fests, but Aaron has definitely had to step up. They are SO busy.  Trent no longer naps (huge bummer) and they both just egg each other on.  Lots of bike riding (for Trent only- Sophie is not there yet), baseball, coloring, dancing (to their special musical CD form Charles) and laying with our old drum.  Hours and hours of fun but poor Aaron.   It takes a lot to keep them occupied. School can’t restart soon enough. 

I can’t believe my “babies” are four! Wow where did the time go? Complete happiness to have friends both sets of grandparent (Aaron folks came from Arizona to help celebrate) and the neighbors to help us celebrate. And we are so proud.  Not so long ago I asked the question of Dr. Edwards if Sophie could “jump in a bouncy house” and Aaron thought I was nuts but… here we are 4 years later and there is our little Sophie girl jumping her heart out in the jumpy house Aaron and I got for their 4 birthday. That in itself was a moment…  And now Aaron and I can consider ourselves “real” parents.  Seems like you haven’t really cross to that place until you’ve had a bouncy house at a party.  However, we did have some learning.  Aaron in being the organized guy he was told the bouncy house guy that we were be ready to return it at 3:30 pm…. which turned out to be a HUGE party foul.  According to the neighbors, you’re always suppose to ask to be the last pick up of the day to ensure you keep the bouncy house as long as you can.  Needless to say, Sophie cried when the bouncy man took it away and now we know- next year it will be “ last pick up of the day”.

The birthday party thing is hard. What to do, what to plan, crafts, games eek—- neither of which I’m good at.  Thank goodness we went for the jumpy house.  Hours of fun and no crafts or games required.   Happiness!  We had worried about rain (in fact I was outside more than once talking to the sky asking for no rain) but we were just spit on a little but no downpour.

I know every parent loves a birthday but somehow given the special way ours came into this world— makes every birthday so much more special.  This year we gave Trent and Sophie bikes.  A big discussion about what to do since Sophie isn’t quite ready yet for a bike but Trent is definitely there and we knew it was time.  So after going back and forth between Toys R Us and Target- we finally got the bikes at Target.  

Trent was just OVER the MOON about his bike.  So happy and today already demanding to have his training wheels removed.  Such a long way from a little man who was 1.5 lbs at birth with huge concerns about cerebral palsy.  He has come so far!  We are so proud of him Sophie needs a little bit more time.  Her brain injury makes it harder for her to do everything but everyday we work at it and she continues to amaze us.  She can’t yet master the potty (although she’s trying really hard) and skipping isn’t quite her thing (her left side doesn’t quite move correctly) but she really wants to ride her new bike and we do think it’s just a matter of time before her brain tells her legs to peddle, peddle, peddle…. and off she will go.  The left and the right side of her body just have to talk to her brain and off she will go!

They are so fortune.  So many people who love them and helping them grow.  Pre-school is the best.  They are both learning so much and what a great day it was to be able to celebrate their birthday with their classmates.  We brought cupcakes and all their friends were happy to celebrate their birthday.   They got special crowns and I’ve never seen two people who were happier to wear their special hats.

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